Mail is something that seems “before my time”, but I’m starting now (at age 33) to realize how nice it is. The United States Postal Service is explicitly created in our Constitution, so it’s a service we should make use of. Remember, it’s a service, not a business! It’s there to facilitate communication, trade/commerce, not make money! Also, people really like receiving handwritten, personal mail in their mailbox. Don’t just think of your mailbox as a business/bills spam trap. Make sure you get your friends’ mailing or home addresses to send them things!
ZIP Code
Other Links
- Postage Calculator (https://postcalc.usps.com/)
- Postal Explorer is https://pe.usps.com/. You can find the Domestic Mail Manual (DMM) there, which seems to have the actual rules. It also has the Price List.
- Domestic Mail Manual (PDF)
- Notice 123 (PDF)
- Publication 52 - Hazardous, Restricted, and Perishable Mail (PDF)
- Personalized Stamped Envelopes and Cards (haven’t tried yet)
- Forms
- usps.com/shop redirects to The Postal Store®
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USA Philatelic Catalog (PDF) and Philatelic catalog order form (PDF)
Sign up for the USA Philatelic catalog using this form (if you want to be able to order stamps by mail) - DMM100 tells you how to mail things https://pe.usps.com/cpim/ftp/manuals/dmm100/dmm100.pdf
- You can find the DMM and other manuals in PDF form at https://about.usps.com/resources/publications.htm. https://about.usps.com/resources/ is also where you’d find forms.
- Domestic Zone Chart (https://postcalc.usps.com/DomesticZoneChart) for calculating the number of zones a parcel travels
- https://facts.usps.com/top-facts/
- United States Postal Inspection Service - https://www.uspis.gov/report
My mailing address
You can write me at:
2342 Shattuck Ave #904Berkeley, CA 94704-1517
United States of America
I don’t check super frequently so I may be slow to respond.
Misc
- See also my envelopes page.
Wax Seals
If you have a wax seal on the outside of the envelope, you’ll need to pay a nonmachineable surcharge, which as of 2024 I think is around 41¢. You can also buy stamps that include this surcharge already, so they’re like $1.14 or whatever.
Who can leave stuff in your mailbox
Only the United States Postal Service is authorized to put things in your mailbox. It’s illegal for other people or businesses like FedEx or UPS to put stuff in there. I’ve actually heard that P.O. boxes can receive packages, as long as they’re mailed and not sent with a private delivery service.
Neighbor’s phone or email
My mom told me about a neighbor who wanted to get the phone or email of another neighbor to complain about noise. They know the neighbor’s address. They could’ve just sent a letter.
Letter headers
I’ve seen some old letters written in like the 1800s, and I noticed they always had their date and location written up top. It’s probably good to write the date on the letter; like, if it’s a birthday note that might be kept around it’s nice to know what year or date the letter was sent. Besides that, I don’t really know the proper etiquette for titling letters. This PDF has guidelines for 19th century letters. There’s also something called Victorian letter writing guides, but that’s kinda different.
Books on writing letters
Actually, I’ve got some books that mention stationery and writing and titling letters. These include:
- Crane’s Blue Book of Stationery - Mentions more handwritten letters than the others
- Emily Post’s Etiquette (I’ve got the 16th edition by Peggy Post)
- Director’s and Officer’s Complete Letter Book
- Business Letters the Easy Way
- How to Write Successful Business Letters by Marcel M. Swartz
PO box prices
A 4"×6" PO box in Mountain View is $100 semi-annually as of 2024-09-04. A 12"×24" is $325 semi-annually.
Stamp prices
You can find prices on the Postal Explorer website, Notice 123 (Price List).
First-class mail Forever Stamps are 73¢ as of 2024-09-04. A typical booklet has 20 stamps or is $14.60. You can send a 1-ounce letter according to DMM-604 Postage Payment Methods and Refunds. For reference, 1 ounce is the weight of 5 quarters.
Nonmachinable surcharge stamps as of 2024-09-04 are $1.19. These have the nonmachinable surcharge fee already included, which I guess is 46¢.
International Addresses
We want to mail a friend in Sweden for his birthday. Sounds like you’d format it like:
[Person name] [Street name] [number] SE-[Postal code] Stockholm SWEDEN
This post on Straight Dope suggests putting country code before zip. But then the post directly after says not to do that.
Here’s some USPS links on the matter:
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International addressing requirements
It mentions checking https://www.upu.int/. Writing addresses in all capital letters. Addresses must be written in ink or typewritten, no pencil. The last line of the address block must include only the complete country name (no abbreviations) written in uppercase letters. A return address is required, might need complete full legal name?
Postcards
Minimum dimensions are 3½" × 5" with 0.007" thickness. Maximum dimensions are 6" x 9" with 0.016" thickness. I think the typical postcard size might be 4" × 6". If more than 4¼" high or 6" long, it needs to be 0.009" thick minimum. See paper for info about postcards
Postcard stamps are like 56¢. If it’s more than 6" high or 9" long, I think it needs a letter stamp.
Certified mail, certificate of mailing
Certified mail tells you when the recipient got the mail. It costs $4.85. Cerificate of mailing just proves you sent it when you said you did. Not sure how to pay certified mail by stamps.
See the certified mail guidebook (or see the PDF) for more info on certified mail.
USPS contact info
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1-800-ASK-USPS (1-800-275-8777)
- Not sure how to directly transfer to an agent, I just pressed a few buttons like 0 and #. Estimated wait time on 2025-03-04 was 30-50 minutes.
- 1-800-222-1811 to track a package
- 1-800-STAMP24 (1-800-782-6724) for The Postal Store to order stamps.
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Their mailing address is
USPS Office of the Consumer Advocate
475 L'Enfant Plaza SW Room 4012
Washington, DC 20260-2200
according to https://www.usa.gov/agencies/u-s-postal-service. - You can also check out the contact directory at https://postalpro.usps.com/support.
Buying packaging at the post office
When you buy envelopes or packaging at the post office, make sure you get them stamped. That shows that you paid for them. Sometimes it’s fine if they’re not stamped, but better safe than sorry.
Buying stamps
An envelope from USPS says that stamps can be purchased:
- Online at usps.com/stamps
- On the phone at 1-800-STAMP-24
- Or by mail through the USA Philatelic Catalog (see the philatelic catalog section above)
In-person selection
Post offices can vary in what kinds of stamps they have available. I was looking for some high-denomination ($5) stamps for parcels. None had it. 150 Sutter in SF at least had $1 and $2 stamps, but Downtown Berkeley and North Berkeley didn’t even have those.
Media Mail
Media mail is a cheaper way to send educational materials. It’s a flat rate based on weight, which I’m guessing is so all Americans have universal access to educational materials. You can send books, and I think CDs and other media formats. Funnily enough, comic books don’t count.
Notes for myself:
- If you’re handwriting a package label (like I did), also write “media mail” on it. The post office clerk did that for me when I mailed it. I mailed the book “Infinite Jest” wrapped in brown paper tied with string using stamps on 2025-03-04. It weighed under 3lb so the price was $6.13. I put a $5 and $2 stamp on it.
- When you’re mailing it with stamps, hand it to the clerk at the post office and say that it’s media mail.
- Look at Notice 123 for the prices.
- Not sure whether you can include a note or letter to the person. A guy at the post office said it was fine, but someone on reddit mentioned stating there’s a “first class enclosure”.
- Media mail has lower priority than other mail. I think I read it takes like 2-8 days. We’ll see.
To Dos
- Mention minimum envelope characteristics
- Explain how to mail packages
- Explain international mail stamps
- Explain how to calculate package prices
- Explain the supreme court ruling that lets you ban certain senders. It’s weird but you essentially say you consider it “pornographic”. I think you’d use PS Form 1500.
- How to find post boxes with OSM.
- How do double postcards (reply postcards) work?
- Sending mail as “General delivery” when you don’t have an address or are traveling. Only some locations accept this. In SF, the general delivery post office is at 391 Ellis.
- Mention that you don’t always need to include a return address. This could be a way to leave someone or some business some semi-anonymous feedback (though I’d probably just include my mailing address anyway).
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How to get removed from mailing lists?
Maybe see https://consumer.ftc.gov/articles/how-stop-junk-mail. - How to write your postmaster to stop junk? Maybe see https://about.usps.com/who/profile/history/postmaster-finder/postmasters-by-city.htm and https://faq.usps.com/s/article/Refuse-unwanted-mail-and-remove-name-from-mailing-lists.
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How to address using “care of”.
Say you were writing “Alice Doe” who works at “Some Company”.
“Some Company” is at “123 Fake Street”.
To write Alice, you’d address:
Alice Doe
℅ Some Company
123 Fake Street
Fake Town, USA